I know when I was divorced years ago and a Mom I wanted to be able to get my girls the things they wanted. I'd hear 'Oh don't worry Mom, Dad will get those expensive panty hose I want". She wanted them for the high school homecoming court. I was back in college to get my RN. To me the only option was to get a better education and raise my value in the work place. That positive message needs to sold to young women. You can do it. There is help. We'll help you find the help.